What i think about engagement ceremony nowdays!

Aku tau mesti ada yg tak sependapat with me kan,  and maybe la maybe ada yg bersependapat with me.  Dulu i pernah buat entry on pre wedding pictures,   skrg ni pulak nak buat entry about what i think about engagement ceremony.  Skrg ni kalau tengok rata2 la org yg bertunang tak kirala artis ke bukan artis ke,semuanya gempak mcm dah nak nikah.  Why ya? Mmg trend ya?

For me mcm membazir je,  buat simple2 sudah for tunang, sbb it just tunang, belum nikah lagi.  Tapi  kalau dah mmg byk duit why not.  Jgn ada yg berhutang pulak just sbb nak ikut trend org bertunang meriah skrg.  Yg tu ok lagi la, ikut sukala kan sapa nak buat tunang besar2an,  ikut dia la kalau dah mampu.

Tapi yg aku kurang berkenanla,  oh tell me that i am kolot, tak pe.  i am kolot agaknya, yala zaman dah berlalu kan.maybe kalau aku baru nak bertunang skrg maybe, maybe i say maybe ya aku buat benda yg sama.  who knows kan.  Tapi sbb zaman dah berlalu, maybe ada yg kata, ala dia tu bolehla cakap mcm tu sbb ni bukan time dia, cuba dia bertunang skrg agaknya lagi kecoh.  Hehehehehe.

Anyway yg aku tak berkenan sgt tu is ada pelamin bagai, what for babes?  dah macam nak nikah.  For me tak thrill la,time nikah esokla baru buat, ya tak?  Kalau takat yg simple2, kira tempat utk menyarung cincin itu finela, mmg patut pun buat mcm tempat sikit kan, tp yg aku tengok ada yg dah mcm pelamin. huhuhu.  Pastu kan pastu,  si lelaki pun siap pakai baju dah macam nak nikah.  mmm. for me baik nikah je terus ya dak.  laki nak dtg mmg boleh, dulu2 pun mmg laki dtg gakkan tapi bila dah habis majlis.  ni ada yg sampai ambik gambar mcm dah nikah pulak.  ambik sikit2 cukupla dik,  simpan sikit utk nikah nanti, barula best.

Entahla for me, apa yg perlu disimpan masa time nikah, simpanla dulu.  Biar adat2 lama yg ada malu2 sikit tu dikekalkan. Yup tak dinafikan skrg zaman moden, masa berubah, tapi ambik gambar mcm dah nikah tu patut dielakkan la ya.  Jgn marah ya sapa yg buat gitu. It just my opinion, nothing personal or serious.

Esok2 kalau Aqil & Mikhael punya engagement nak buat mcm tu gak what can i saykan.  Dah mmg trend ya dak.

Cheers people

End of the year that full of Wedding

 Pak Pak Pung Pung! Pak Pak Pung Pung! -  My collegues wedding at Kampung Pengantin on 27/11

 My neighbour's daughter wedding at Dewan Besar Cheras on 4/12

 Wedding kat Dewan Komanwel on 11/12 kat bukit jalil, which falls same day as Sure Heboh, ambik kau mmg heboh,  punyala susah nak masuk dewan ni, kereta beratur panjang.

 Cantikkan pelamin ni, pelamin skrg mmg cantik sgt, guna fresh flowers. Budak kecik yg jadi props tu pun handsome kan. heehhehe.

 Chinese Wedding on last Saturday 18/12,  I love chinese course.

Nyum nyum sedap

The door gift,  it's a candle.

Yam Seng......................

My favourite, shark fin soup.

Sedap.

The dessert i didn't taste,  aku mmg agak susah sikit mau makan dessert yg tak pernah di lihat.

Longan & Lychee.  Sedap.  Well i have another two more kenduri kawin to go, one is this weekend, next is on the new year.  Huhuhu non stop tu.  Selamat Pengantin Baru.

It's My 6th Wedding Anniversary

  

 It was on 27 Nov 2004 at 11 am, Alhamdulillah,  6 years yang sgt mengembirakan and i am blessed with 2 lovely children.

 This is the picture yg i citer kat u all the 1st time we all tangkap gambar berdua.

 And today is my receiption day pada 6 tahun yg lepas la.  Here are some pictures that i want to share with you guys for the very first time, tak pernah di publish anywhere, facebook pun tidak.

 The Pelamin

 Makan beradap

 Oh masa ni, berdebar sebenarnya, takut kaki terpeleot ke, aku ni dahla terkenal dgn suka terpeleot, tak de angin tak de ribut lantai  yg tak de lekuk2 pun boleh terpeleot.

Makan Beradap, berdebar takut tercomot ke masa makan.  Heheheheh.

Till we meet again with more pictures of my wedding in the next anniversary Insyallah.

What do you think about pre-wedding pictures? Sesuai or kurang sesuai?

What do you think about pre-wedding pictures?, rata2 bakal2 pengantin skrg mesti nak buat gambar pre-wedding kan. mmg cantik, jealous tengok. masa zaman i kawin dulu, digital camera pun takde lagi,  nak ambik cameraman dok sibuk tanya, berapa roll u nak?  hahahahah.

But do you think pre-wedding pictures ni perlu? elok? sesuai? or sbb nak ikut trend masa kini.  Well for me, maybela ada yg akan kata i kolot, ketinggalan zaman or maybe i jealous sbb time i dulu tak de semua ni, so that's why i tak suka, kalau time dia ada sure dia pun buat sama.  Ntah, maybe, mana tau kan.

Tapi i rasa mcm takla, you know why? i kawan dgn my hubby for 12 years barula jodoh kami sampai, sepanjang2 12 years we never ever had a chance to take pictures together,  tak de org nak ambik gambar kami berdua agaknya. hehehehehe.  or mmg kami nak save the moment until the wedding, gila old fashionkan.

Tapi mmg betul pun, the first time we took pictures together is after selesai the akad nikah.  Romantik tak romantik, romantik katanya, yala barula ada perasaan malu2kan,  yala mula2 tangkap gambar together punyala ramai org tengok & the feeling after we are officialy husband & wife tu adalah priceless, the feeling yg sukar digambarkan, eventhough i kenal my hubby sampai berbelas tahun, tapi malu2 tu tetap ada.

Itu yg mahal tu kan.  Ni belum kawin dah sibuk ambik gambar pre-wedding, and act like mcm dah kawin, thrill to tak cukup kick la,  I'm no saying mcm la aku baik sgt, sebelum kawin tak pegang tangan ke apa. Just gambar pre-wedding tu kan dah mcm ambik gambar org yg dah kawin, so before kawin dah ambik gambar mcm dah kawin ish hilang seri on the wedding day nanti. The baju ala2 pengantin, the way they capture the picture semua seolah2 mcm org kawin,  habis the excitement kan.

Don't you think so?
Anyone agree with me?  I still love the malu2 thingy action bila org nak ambik gambar after the akad. 
Anyway esok2 kalau Aqil & Mikhael nak buat pre-wedding pictures it's up to them la, it's their choice.
I'm not against any pre-wedding pictures thingy, just i lebih suka kalau kita simpan sikit until the wedding day. It will be more thrill & excitement. Believe me.

Datuk Angkasawan kita, lovely, i love this pictures, cantikkan.

 So green, cantik sgt. Nampak very lively.

 And i just love beach,  kalau boleh nak ambikla jugak gambar mcm ni.  Next honeymoon dear hubby, boleh la kita bawak sorang photographer.  hehehehehe.

Wedding in Ipoh & Nampak kurus tak?

And this is the wedding

The flower boy, yg bila aku cakap, guys pandang camera cepat, nak masuk dlm internet tak?  aku ingat diorng akan excitedla, rupanya semua kata tak nak, and semua pandang belakang, hahahahaha.

The flower girl yg sporting & excited nak masuk dlm ceritacherita.  hahahahaha konon, diorng tak tau pun apa tu ceritacherita.

The kompang boy

The pengantin.  My cousin pengantin lelaki tu.

My mom & my cheeky boy.

Me & my boys, si kecik tu tak reti diam, last2 aku dukung sbb nak ambik gambar. And this is the latest of me lepas ambik Slim Diet 2 (hehehehe promote sikit), so amacam ada nampak kurus tak?

Kalau rasa nak try Slim Diet 2 let me know.

Impiana Ipoh

Last Saturday we went to Ipoh and stayed at Impiana Ipoh (formerly known as Casuarina Ipoh), sbbnya mlm tu ada kenduri my cousin, which is the last grandson of Tok Walid (arwah my atok). Lepas ni kenduri sedara rapat2 dah tak de dah,  tunggu lagi 10 tahun la the latest pun kalau anak2 cousin pulak nak kawin.

At the lobby, budak2 yg tak reti diam, excited lari sana sini.  Ada incident yg tak berapa best, tapi at last semua settle.  Citernya my BIL booked 3 rooms kat sini, tapi dia kerja so dtg lewat sikit, he only gave me the booking numbers for me to check in, he did booking thru internet before.  Tapi sampai sana boleh tak the hotel kata his booking tu bukan di buat on 20th but on the 24th,  i pulak tak de the details copy so nak argue lebih pun tak boleh sbb tak de prove kan. Tapi yg peliknya ada ke pulak their system tak boleh trace the booking numbers.

Anyway nasibla hotel nya sungguh cantik & sungguh indah.

Lama gak budak2 ni kena tunggu i selesaikan kat counter.

Sampai sempat berguling, kat belakang tu is the swimming pool, tapi too bad, after we check in ingat petang2 sikit mau swimming & jln2 ipoh tapi hujan lebat ya amat bersama2 dgn angin yg cukup kencang. Maka duduk dlm bilik je.

Well, this is the normal roomla, sama je mcm hotel lain2 kan.

Ada hairdryer, so sapa2 nak blow rambut tak payah nak berat2 kena bawak hairdryer dr rumah.

 Budak yg tengah tengok tv, sian dia semua alatan playstation di bawak, last2 cable yg nak connect to tv tertinggal, so tak dpt la dia main game kat sana.

 And this the picture before going to the wedding, saja santai2 ambik gambar kat lobby dulu. handsome tak?  Aqil kata itu cara boss duduk, sambil silang kaki. Mikhael cuba nak tiru, mula2 tak jadi.

 Ha at last dpt gak Mikhael silangkan kaki. hehehehe.

Jalan ke parking.  Dua2 budak ni sibukla nak bawak jugak bag sorang satu.

Citer wedding to be continue..... stay tuned